Parenting Consultation
Intentionally Integrating Child Therapy and Parent Support
You Know Your Child. I Know Behavior and Therapy.
We work together to create the lasting change you desire
Youāve brought your child to play therapy because you see theyāre struggling, and youāre ready to get them support. Maybe itās big emotions that erupt out of nowhere, constant meltdowns over the smallest things, or confusing behavior that no parenting book seems to address. Youāve tried the strategies: rewards, consequences, talking it through, but nothing seems to create lasting change. And while your child is in therapy, part of you still wonders:
āAm I doing the right thing?ā
āWill this really help in the long run?ā
āIs there something more I should be doing?ā
You might feel a mix of hope and uncertainty, guilt and relief. Thatās completely normal. You care deeply about your child, and you want to show up for them in the best way possible.
Hereās the good news: you donāt have to figure it all out alone.
As a registered play therapist in Denver, I LOVE working with children, AND I know that the most effective therapy happens when parents are included, not as bystanders, but as active, supported partners in the process. Because when we link whatās happening in the playroom to whatās happening at home, thatās where real, sustainable change begins.
Itās Not āJust Playā, Itās a Therapeutic Process with Parent Support Built In
To your child, their 40 minutes in the playroom each week may feel like a fun break: a chance to play, explore, and be themselves. They might even ask, āWhen do I get to go back to play therapy?ā or light up when they know itās time for their special session with their therapist. Even though your child might come out of the session saying they just played with dolls, built towers, or battled superheroes, whatās actually happening underneath that play is far more powerful. In that space, theyāre making sense of their world, expressing emotions they donāt yet have words for, working through fears and frustrations, and beginning to imagine new ways of coping, connecting, and feeling safe
But hereās what I also know: children donāt grow in isolation. Their healing doesnāt stop at the therapy room door. Real, lasting change takes root when parents and caregivers understand whatās unfolding beneath the surface and feel supported in responding to it with empathy and clarity at home.
Thatās why parent consultation isnāt an āadd-onā to therapy; itās a foundational part of how I approach my work as a play therapist in Denver. Your insight, your questions, and your experience as a parent matter. When we combine your deep knowledge of your child with my understanding of therapeutic play, we become a powerful team helping your child grow toward confidence, emotional regulation, and connection.
What to Expect from Parent Consultation in Play Therapy
Each time you bring your child to an individual therapy session, weāll begin or end with a brief 5-10-minute check-in. This is a moment of connection, just you and your childās therapist, so we can stay on the same page. These arenāt for unloading the latest challenge (and especially not in front of your child), but they are a time for updates, encouragement, shared focus, and often logistics (scheduling, billing, etc).
The real depth of our work together unfolds in scheduled parent consultation sessions, typically held once a month or more often if your family needs extra support. These 45-minute, one-on-one sessions are where we pause, reflect, and connect beyond the quick check-ins at drop-off or pick-up. Itās your time to step out of survival mode and step into deeper understanding.
During these consultations, Iāll help you make sense of whatās unfolding in your childās play therapy, whether youāre participating in the sessions with your child or hearing about the session afterward. Even the simplest play holds powerful clues about your childās inner world. Together, weāll look at the themes emerging in their play and how those connect to the therapy goals weāve set. Youāll gain insight into what your child is processing emotionally, often things they canāt yet put into words. Most importantly, youāll leave with practical, personalized tools to support your child in the moments that matter most: at home, in the classroom, and out in the world.
This is also a space for your voice. You can bring your questions, your concerns, your āIs this normal?ā moments, and your āWhat do I do whenā¦?ā stories. Weāll troubleshoot together, celebrate wins (even the small ones!), and reconnect you with your parenting strengths.
Youāre not expected to āfixā your child. You donāt need to have it all figured out. But when you understand why theyāre acting the way they are, your responses naturally shift. And thatās where the transformation really takes holdāfor both of you.
From Confusion to Clarity: What Parents Really Gain from Consultation
One parent said it best: āOnce we understood the behavior better, we knew how to support the change we wanted to see.ā
Thatās the heart of parent consultation. These sessions arenāt about quick fixes or stopping behavior in the momentātheyāre about slowing down and asking better questions. Instead of āHow do I make this stop?ā we begin to ask, āWhat is my child trying to tell meāand how can I meet them there?ā
Understanding replaces guessing. Clarity replaces chaos. And with that shift, everything changes.
In our work together, youāll begin to:
Feel more confident when big emotions show up, knowing how to respond instead of react
Understand the āwhyā behind your childās behaviors, rather than feeling caught off guard by them
Support your child in ways that build trust, emotional regulation, and resilience
Recognize your own triggers and shift patterns that leave you feeling stuck or discouraged
Find more ease and connection in your everyday parenting, not because itās perfect, but because itās more grounded
You may never have thought that parenting would include finding a child therapist and navigating the world of play therapy. Yet here you are, doing everything you can to support your childās growth. Along the way, this process can stir up big emotions of your own guilt, fear, grief, and even self-doubt. Thatās not a sign youāre failing as a parent. Itās a reflection of how deeply you love and care for your child. Our consultation sessions create space for you, too, to be heard, understood, and supported every step of the way.
Therapy isnāt something done to your child; itās something we do together
Play therapy isnāt a service where you drop your child off and hope for the best. Itās not about āfixingā behavior or checking boxes. Itās a relational, respectful process, and it works best when weāre working together.
This isnāt something I do to your child itās something we co-create.
As a Play Therapist in Denver, I bring my training, experience, and deep understanding of how children heal through play. You bring your day-in, day-out relationship with your child, your lived experience as their parent, and the fierce love that drives you to seek help in the first place.
Together, we become a team working toward one shared goal: helping your child feel safe, connected, emotionally grounded, and more fully themselves.
Your role is not passive; itās powerful. When youāre included and supported, your childās growth accelerates. And when you feel more confident and clear in your parenting, everyone in the family benefits.
If youāre looking for a Play Therapist in Denver who values you as an essential part of the process, not an observer on the sidelines youāre in the right place.
Understand your child. Support their growth. Feel confident as a parent.
You donāt have to keep second-guessing yourself or wondering if youāre doing enough. You deserve to feel grounded, supported, and clear in your parenting, and your child deserves a team thatās truly working together to understand and nurture who they are.
If youāre feeling unsure, overwhelmed, or just ready for a new approach, we invite you to take the next step.
Schedule a free minute video consultation today. Weāll talk about whatās going on for your child, what youāre hoping for, and how play therapyāwith built-in parent consultation and supportācan help your entire family move forward with more clarity and connection.
What Parents Often Ask About Parent Consultation
You might still have questions about what parent consultation really looks like and how it can support your childās progress in play therapy (and overall assist family with ease towards desired outcomes). Thatās completely normal. Here are some of the most common things I talk through with caregivers who are new to this process and wondering how it all fits together.
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Those brief check-ins are a helpful way to stay connected, but theyāre not the right space for deeper conversations. Parent consultation sessions offer uninterrupted time to reflect on your childās therapy, understand emerging themes in their play, and talk through whatās coming up at home. Itās in these longer sessions where insight, strategy, and real growth come together.
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These 50-minute sessions are designed to help you make sense of your childās emotional world and behaviors. We will follow a structured framework to guide us through understanding behavior, supporting the nervous system, responding to challenging behaviors, and exploring what gets in the way of applying this way of supporting children can be challenging. Weāll discuss whatās unfolding in their play therapy, how that connects to their development, and explore tools that support their growth at home. Youāre invited to bring your questions, stories, and challenges so we can work through them together.
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While parent coaching often focuses on specific strategies to manage behavior, parent consultation is rooted in the ongoing therapeutic process your child is engaged in. These sessions are not about quick fixesātheyāre about making sense of your childās emotional world and tailoring support based on whatās emerging in therapy. As a Play Therapist, I bring clinical insight and developmental understanding to help you respond with more clarity and connection.
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No. These sessions are not about prescribing a right or wrong way to parent. Instead, weāll explore new ways of understanding your childās behaviors, needs, and communicationāso your responses feel more aligned, attuned, and grounded. Many parents leave feeling more confident and connected, not because they were ātaughtā something, but because things finally make sense.
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Thatās completely normalāand welcome. Parenting a child who is struggling can stir up a lot: fear, guilt, confusion, even grief. Parent consultation is a space for your experience, too. You donāt have to hold it all together here. Weāll hold space for the emotions that come up and help you move forward with clarity and support.
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This depends on where your child/family is at in the therapy process. Typically we will plan on 10-12 structured parent consultation sessions scheduled weekly or bi-weekly during the first 3-4 months of your childās therapy process. We will discuss frequency of parent consultation sessions as part of the individualized plan created to meet your childās goals. These sessions are scheduled to support the first 16-20 sessions of your childās therapy process. Once we have the foundation established, we can decrease frequency to support your childās ongoing therapy goals.
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If both parents or caregivers are involved and able to attend, that can be helpful, but itās not required. Some families choose to rotate who attends, while others designate one parent to take the lead in consultation. Weāll talk together about what makes the most sense for your family and your childās needs.
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Thatās completely okay. You donāt need to come in with an agenda. We utilize a structured framework based on Robyn Gobbelās Raising Kids with Big Baffling Behaviors, From there Iāll guide the conversation based on whatās happening in therapy and what Iāve been observing in your childās play. Often, once we start talking, the important questions and insights naturally come up.
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Parenting brings up complex emotions, and itās normal to worry about saying the āwrongā thing. This space is judgment-free and built for honesty. Youāre welcome to bring up anythingāyour own reactions, fears, or questions about parentingāand weāll work through it together with care and curiosity. These sessions are also a space to share feedback about how therapy is going for you and your child. Whether something is working really well or doesnāt feel quite right, I want to hear that. Your perspective helps us stay aligned and responsive to your childās needs.
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Yes. Some parents choose to continue with occasional consultation sessions after their child has completed therapy, especially during transitions or challenging developmental phases. These check-ins can be a helpful way to stay grounded and supported as your parenting evolves.

